Lingam (male intimate) massage is usually conducted after you are brought deep into your body with stimulating strokes and caresses. You will be asked gently if you are comfortable with your genitals being touched. Clear permission is required. This helps to build trust and safety between us. What we are about to engage in is very intimate work and it is important that you feel at ease, safe, and relaxed. Then, there is nothing to do but lie back, breath deeply, and focus on the sensations that you are experiencing.
It is important to be aware during the massage that getting hard, staying hard, or ejaculating is not expected. If this happens then that is fantastic! If it does not, then that is also great. In Tantra, and specifically with my Tantric Massage, it is important to be aware that it is okay to let your body act as naturally and as freely as you desire without pressure to perform. This allows you to feel freely explore your arousal and sensations and is a fundamental step in learning ejaculatory control.
All lingam massage requires time and stimulation containing a mixture of soft, slow, firm, and gentle undulating stokes that build sexual energy and excitement. However, it is most important that you remain relaxed and untensed during this time. Tensing your buttocks, abdominal and perineum muscles increases the urge to ejaculate. My intention when performing Linham massage is to further heighten sexual and sensual energies, already created during Tantric Massage and to spread this energy. It is this awakening of Kundalini energy that we wish to build on when enjoying elements of Linham massage; and it is during this time that you will experience your deepest sexual spiritual and emotional transformations.
Linham Massage can be used to treat many and varied emotional and physical aliments. These include, but are not exclusive to, premature ejaculation, intimacy issues, blocked base chakra, and extension of pleasure and orgasm.
About Lingam Massage
Once you are suitably aroused after Tantric Massage, I will play, menader, and luxuriate, you in sensual touch beginning with the lightest touch of my fingertip. You will be taken through a number of very pleasurable strokes using my hands to glide you in and out of sexual bliss. You will be encouraged to engage in deep moaning and breathing allowing your body to move freely, as you feel good. Your experience of pleasure will build slowly and your entire body will become sensulaized. You will ride the wave of bliss as I heighten your energy and then allow Kundilini to settle.
This will be performed a number of times and you will finally peak at the stage of climax. Everybody’s experience of this climax is different and this can be linked to the amount of tantric practise one has indulged in, mood, and other physical or emotion factors. Some report that they experience a white ray of light shooting out of their first chakra, others experience deep full body orgasm with ejaculation, others experience full-body orgasm or non-ejaculatory orgasm. We are all unique in our experiences and should not try to control what takes place during Tantric Massage.
We can also discuss your experience of the massage afterwards, if you would like additional time to share and go deeper with your experience.
